Added: Leland Lino - Date: 22.01.2022 11:03 - Views: 30895 - Clicks: 3522
Remember, the goal of discipline is to correct, not punish. I took it as a go al that I needed to intervene and call her attention about getting her way and obeying Mommy and not taking advantage of situations to ask for permission nor extensions. We went to the bedroom and I brought out the rod and she was horrified that rod by the way I bought in church.
Before, I simply used a stick to threaten her that if she does not obey she will get spanked though I never did it. I did not have the heart. Panakot lang. I proceeded to explain what it was for and that her behavior that day called for Mommy to bring out the rod. Her conduct was unacceptable and I expressed that I will no longer tolerate it.
I had to discipline her to correct it. I told her that when Mommy gives a rule, it must be obeyed without challenge, without excuse and without delay those are the three criteria for true obedience, as per Tripp. It was a minute struggle just getting her to pull down her undergarments so I can spank her bottom. Please note that you do not force them to show their bottom. I made sure to put her on my lap.
Skin to skin. She also refused to be spanked because it will hurt. I explained to her that it is more painful for Mommy and that it is not easy, but God is asking me to do it to when you disobey, because if you disobey Mommy, you disobey God. I have to obey God and discipline you when you disobey. During this whole discourse I kept calm and never sounded angry. I was pure objective and rationale.
I had to be firm the whole time. And then finally the spank. Just one spank on her left buttock cheek. I know the pain I inflicted was enough for her to take her obedience seriously. I know she will remember that pain and every time she is be tempted to disobey, she will recall that and may think twice. True enough the next time I used the rod on her was over a month later. Immediately after the spank, I pulled up her underwear and pants and embraced her. I let her cry and I just comforted her until she hushed. Remember, the goal of discipline is to correct, not to punish.
After consoling and explaining, we end with a prayer. She prays first for forgiveness of her disobedience and grace to not do it again. I do the same and pray for her, too. We embrace some more, kiss some more and leave the room just as close as we were, like nothing emotional and physical happened.
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