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When people say, "There's an app for that," they're not kidding -- especially when it comes to connecting with others. Instead of using only one way to send messages , teens and adults are using lots of different apps to share a secret here, stalk a crush there, or post a selfie anywhere.
Depending on what they want to say and to whom, teens choose the app that best fits their needs. If they don't want a message to hang around, they'll use a temporary app such as Snapchat. If they want to remain anonymous, they'll use an app such as Yik Yak. On the plus side, new messaging options let teens share with a smaller audience than social media apps such as Facebook , where teens may have hundreds of friends. This so-called "narrowcasting" as opposed to broadcasting is probably a positive trend and prevents some oversharing.
But it doesn't mean teens can't still get themselves in trouble. Though most teens are only sharing day-to-day moments with an already-tight social group, there can be unintended consequences when teens think temporary messages really disappear forever or when they make mean comments under cover of anonymous apps.
Here's what you need to know about the anonymous and disappearing-message apps you're likely to find on your kid's phone:. Anonymous Apps and Sites On the positive side, going incognito online helps us express ourselves in ways we might not be able to in the real world. On the negative side, anonymous apps are often riddled with inappropriate content. They also can encourage bullying behavior. Why it's popular : Although there are some friendly interactions on Ask.
This iffy content is part of the site's appeal for teens. Kik Messenger : As with other messaging apps, Kik lets you send texts, pictures, and video. But it also offers lots of other mini-apps that let you do everything from exchange virtual greeting cards to chat with strangers. Users don't have to reveal real names, so there's a layer of anonymity. Why it's popular : There's much more to Kik than meets the eye: You can send unlimited messages without depleting your texting limit; you can see whether someone has read your message; you can send individual or group messages; you can surf the Web from inside the app itself; and you can access tons of other content from within the app.
Omegle : An anonymous chat client through which users discuss anything they'd like. Its conversations are filled with lewd language and references to sexual content, drugs and alcohol, and violence. Why it's popular : Online chat rooms have been around for ages, as have the iffy and inappropriate conversations that happen in them. Though there are many misconceptions about "online predators," it's true that risky online relationships -- though rare -- more frequently evolve in chat rooms when teens willingly seek out or engage in sexual conversation. Whisper : A social "confessional" app that allows users to post whatever's on their minds.
Users type a confession, add a background image, and share it with the Whisper community. It's intended for users age 17 and older. Why it's popular : There's something to be said about sharing one's innermost thoughts without repercussions, especially if those thoughts aren't socially acceptable: It's cathartic. For those who simply choose to browse, Whisper can be amusing, heartbreaking, troubling, and comforting all at once. Yik Yak : A geographically based anonymous-chat app that lets users send photos and texts to people near their location.
Why it's popular : Teens want to connect with people already in their communities, and Yik Yak delivers on that desire. They can reference teachers and other students, and it's likely that other users will know who they're talking about. Because it's anonymous, teens can feel free to be totally candid. The best way to approach these apps with your kids? Talk to them about their online reputations -- not in terms of "getting caught" by teachers, college-admissions officers, or future employers but as a matter of being true to themselves.
Acknowledge that, chances are, they'll come across extreme, inappropriate, or hurtful content online … and that it's OK for them to ask you about it, especially if it upsets them. These kinds of conversations will be far from fleeting -- the benefits will last a lifetime. Temporary Apps Temporary apps allow people to send messages and images that self-destruct after a set time window.
Teens can use these apps to more carefully manage their digital trails -- so long as they don't share things they wouldn't normally send otherwise. Burn Note : A messaging app that erases messages after a set period of time. It's limited to text; users can't send pictures or video. Why it's popular : Its text-only platform, plus its unique display system that reveals only one word at a time, make it feel more secretive than similar apps.
Line : A multifaceted text, video, and voice-messaging app that also integrates social media elements such as games and group chats. Why it's popular : Teens are drawn to Line not only because it's a bit of an all-in-one mobile hub but also because it offers a lot of of teen-friendly elements, such as a selection of over 10, stickers and wacky emoticons, as well as Line Play, an avatar-based social network. The free texting and video calls don't hurt, either. Snapchat : A messaging app that lets users put a time limit on the pictures and videos they send before they disappear.
Why it's popular : Snapchat 's creators intended the app's fleeting images to be a way for teens to share fun, light moments without the risk of having them go public. And that's what most teens use it for: sending goofy or embarrassing photos to one another. Teens may pay more attention to Snapchats that they receive, knowing they'll disappear in a matter of seconds.
Parents' Ultimate Guide to Support our work! Corona Column 3 Use these free activities to help kids explore our planet, learn about global challenges, think of solutions, and take action. Parenting, Media, and Everything In Between. Cool new apps give teens lots more opportunities to overshare or worse. By Christine Elgersma. Here's what you need to know about the anonymous and disappearing-message apps you're likely to find on your kid's phone: Anonymous Apps and Sites On the positive side, going incognito online helps us express ourselves in ways we might not be able to in the real world.
What parents need to know : Bullying is a concern. The British news website MailOnline reported that the site has been linked to the suicides of several teens. Talk to your teens about cyberbullying and how anonymity can encourage mean behavior. Anonymous answers are optional.
Users can decide whether to allow anonymous posts and can remove their answers from streaming to decrease their profile's visibility. If teens do use the site, they'd be best turning off anonymous answers and keeping themselves out of the live stream. What parents need to know : It's easy to send messages to a group or all users if you're not savvy about settings, so teens might post things to everyone that they only mean to share with friends.
Make sure they know how to navigate the settings and block people. It's possible to have anonymous contact with strangers. Talk to your teen about what information they shouldn't share, and encourage them to block people they don't know. Kik employs "bots" automated messages that look like they're from people but are actually a form of marketing , so if kids don't recognize a user or something seems off, tell them not to reply. Many of the internal apps are iffy because they're trying to sell something or promote products.
Make sure kids know whether they're allowed to spend and that "promoted chats" are actually advertising. What parents need to know : Users get paired up with strangers -- that's the whole premise of the app. The app has been implicated in cases of sexual predators of teens. And there's no registration required. This is not an app for kids and teens. Omegle is filled with people searching for sexual chat.
Some prefer to do so live. Others offer links to porn websites. Language is a big issue. And since the chats are anonymous, they're often much more explicit than those with someone who can be identified. What parents need to know : The scenarios can be hard to stomach. Reading that a teacher has fantasies about his or her students or that someone's father is going to be released from jail and start a custody battle can weigh heavily on teens. Some confessions, however, are totally benign and funny! There's plenty of inappropriate content. All too often, Whispers are sexual.
Some use Whisper to solicit others for sex using the app's geo-location "nearby" feature. Strong language and drug and alcohol references also are prevalent for example, "My wife and I were both high on our wedding day" and "I dropped acid with my mom once".
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