Types of femdom

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If you are beginning a journey into gentle femdom or are thinking about a female led relationship, then there is a new world in front of you. The typical literature and adult video sites can give a very warped and distorted view of how the domme may need to act. Typically, the male sub will be very submissive and the whole thing revolves around sex.

The domme will thus be some leather-clad vixen, whipping or sexually humiliating her sub. As a beginner mistress, you might be thoroughly confused about how you will adopt your style. Your sub is going to give you authority over him in a wide range of areas. Chores, tasks, errands, improvements, and a willingness to submit to agreed limits. Among the hard limits such as public humiliation, will be a lot of leeway to act spontaneously and get him performing things that are in his own best interest. So as you start your journey into mistressing and gentle femdom , I offer a few styles of domme that you may want to think about.

A domme provides for her sub through careful adoration and thoughtful guidance on his activities , while providing ever watchful protection. Punishments are normally only administered maybe for disrespect and doing something that could be harmful for the sub. Think spanking if he rushes into the road. Punishments are for guidance to wanted behaviour. The style of dominance is characterized by much less confrontational attitudes and more uplifting praise. This style of dominant female is more characterized by an overly caring and loving attitude, and the requests are made as if a parent is talking to .

A lot of the instructions are done for the subs benefit, not selfishness on part of the domme. This style of dominant femdom is more characterized by a partnership of equals where the wife decides when and where to apply the dominance. The sub is her husband, and as such he should be afforded the normal respect of why she chose him. Punishments are reserved for serious offences, not whimsical pleasure. On big decisions his opinion will be sought, but day to day she can instruct him as necessary to achieve her role within the partnership.

She will demand femine things occasionally in accordance with a marriage like foot rubs and a bath being run. The sub will run errands for her so she can make the house run smoothly and she will request his services so he acts more like a husband. Serious uncomfortableness will be avoided as she actually cares for him. Sexually she will dominate when she wants to please him, but expect him to male in the bedroom when she requires it.

This perhaps is more the opposite of the motherly style of dominant femdom. It also happens to be more in tune with the more mainstream view of BDSM. While there are graded levels, and personal choices within this style it is more about the mistress than the sub. A more self absorbed style of femdom. A dominant mistress expects certain attitudes in her sub. They will seem less interested in the subs welfare, and expect more adoration than other styles. She will expect her sub to go out and get her things as he is more of a personal servant.

She expects to be treated as if she is the only person in her subs thoughts, and is selfish in how she treats her sub. They truly want a subjugated male, both physically and mentally. Rewards are used less than punishments for corrective behaviour. You are less likely to be given incentives to please a dominant style of femdom, but given punishments for not anticipating needs, providing substandard work, or not sufficiently being respectful. If a female wants to be this style of domme she should expect the sub to subservient to her in a full range of matters.

The mistress would issue instructions so that the world revolves around her, and the sub must expect to show respect often. Manners from the sub are important to this style of mistress, as it is respectful of her natural authority, and might take a great interest in exactly how the sub is to be respectful. Should the sub keep his head bowed when she is in his presence? The mistress has a professional attitude and expects tasks to be anticipated and if her input is needed she will decide what action needs to be taken.

There is freedom for the sub but they must make sure key tasks, and responsibilities are done. There is a distinct lack of overt worshipping. She would not be impressed if the sub cooked 3 meals when she got home, and asked her to choose. It is a far more efficient, clear thinking and sensible form of dominance.

A mistress would just task and expect . A pragmatic approach to her authority. The mistress has responsibilities and the sub is thought of more like an employee. Praise when necessary but punishments for lack of respect for her authority. It is not a self absorbed style of dominance, so while she may appreciate flowers it could also be seen as an attempt to overly indulge and she might wonder what the sub is covering up.

The dominant professional style is firm and fair, and not particularly prone to random acts. The dominance is confident and assured. She is used to people obeying her, and she acts like the sub is naturally there for her use. A brat princess has power and authority over her sub but will not be responsible for anything. In the household, all other styles may task you with chores so they can take responsibility for the house being the way they need it.

Another way to think about it is a father with an overly spoiled child. He is so devoted to her, so that she actually runs the show. She dresses very feminely and is definitely a girlfriend who knows she is the catch. Her sub is there to spoil her, and spoil her rotten. He would be there to make sure she is taken care of properly betting a manner that she aspires to.

She is sexually aware and flaunts it in his face, to tease and prove her power over him. The mistress would be seen as bossy and unconcerned as the sub is to make her life easier, from lifts to work or carry bags on a shopping trip. A mistress might give snap orders as fun kinks, the thrill of power and testing the limits of subservience to her. If you think of a sexually maturing teenage princess with an obedient servant you may not be too far wrong on the attitude. The sub is there to handle the things the mistress is not confident about and give her the experience she lacks.

She is sexually adventurous and wants to dominate in bed, but needs a guiding hand. Her sub is definitely there to pleasure her. So there you go, not an exhaustive list, but perhaps a quick and easy bracketing of what domme style might suit you best. There are no hard and fast rules that you must obey. As long as you and your sub have fun and both get something from the relationship and experience then everything is going fine.

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